My Massage Therapist Isn’t Getting Hard

It’s a question people sometimes wonder, but are afraid to ask.

My massage therapist isn’t getting hard. Is there something wrong?

Relax, it’s almost certainly not you.

There are many reasons why your massage therapist might not be hard while massaging you. Here’s some examples:

• Remember you’re not their only client. They may have dozens, or hundreds of clients, and you may be their 5th one for the day. They could just be tired

• They may have already cum just recently. They may have a partner (or multiple partners) and have already had sex that day
  
  
• They’re tired or in pain. Massages aren’t easy, they can be rough on the body, and while they’re massing you their arms and other parts of their body can be aching. This is going to work against any sexual response
  
  
• They’re concentrating. Remember that for a massage therapist, giving a massage is their professional job. They’re usually not there just for the enjoyment, they’re trying to provide a service. And so they will be focussed the massage, probably counting and focusing on which step they’re up to, and what is coming next

There’s plenty of other reasons too (they’re just not feeling well, they’re stressed, whatever), but the main thing to remember is that giving a professional massage is very different to receiving one, and if your massage therapist isn’t getting as hard as you like, this isn’t a personal reflection on you. It’s just not the right time and place sometimes.